Valentine's Day Relaxation

February, 2011

Ok, so perhaps I'm a little biased in my thinking, but after having been pregnant basically for the past two Valentine's Days (and working nonstop in-between) my wish for V-Day this year is relaxation. I swear if my husband buys me some lingerie, I don't know what I'll do. And guys, let's be honest...that's really more of a present for ya'll anyway! So, what's a guy to do? Well, luckily there are several resources in the Middle Georgia area to help!

Depending on the budget, you can go big and get her a full-on spa day. Many local salons and independent massage therapists have full services for you. I would suggest starting with a massage, at least an hour if not longer, and perhaps a scrub or hot stone treatment in addition. Then go for the facial, pedicure/manicure, and hair styling. If you really want to make a full day of it...add a new outfit for her (like this red number from Bella's!) and go out to dinner.

If the full-on treatment is not within your budget, just get her a simple massage or manicure/pedicure. Trust me...she will appreciate the thought and effort. To make it a truly special day, be sure to throw in doing a load of laundry or some of the household chores that she usually does. And take the kids somewhere for the day...don't just pawn them off on your parents or in-laws, but take them yourself.

Now, if you cannot afford to go to a salon and have someone do the pampering for you, take a page from Aiden on an episode of Sex and the City. Your wife will remember the time Aiden made a bath for Carrie complete with candles and everything. You can easily create a romantic or spa ambiance by going to local stores for bath supplies and candles.

If you do this right guys, there will be no need to spend money on lingerie...she will reward you herself! And let's be honest, that's even better than asking for it yourself! Happy Valentine's everyone, and best of luck not screwing it up. If you follow my directions, even only somewhat, you guys should be in the clear.

Oh, and a tip for the ladies...for your man, there may not be many things men need but they all appreciate good food. So, if he attempts any of my advice or tries to be romantic in some way, you can be prepared with a great dinner for him (The Casserole Shop or Super Suppers have plenty of selections that can be at the ready in your fridge) as well as whatever else it is he likes. You already know...you don't need ME to tell you! He might even like a massage or candlelight bath as well. Just be sure to treat each other to a nice, relaxing evening in your own style.

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